Empowering Your Child With Healthy Technology Habits

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Parents, does your child melt down when screen time ends or seem “hooked” on devices? You are not alone. Screens are designed to be highly engaging, and many kids struggle with stopping quickly, especially when they are tired, hungry, or already dysregulated.

What’s happening in your child’s brain?

When kids use fast paced, high reward media, the brain’s reward system gets a big boost. That includes dopamine pathways tied to motivation and “wanting more.” When the device turns off abruptly, kids often feel a sharp shift from high stimulation to low stimulation. For some children, that change can look like irritability, bargaining, yelling, or tears.

Think of it like taking a bite of a decadent dessert and having it snatched away with nothing else to transition to. Of course that would feel disappointing and unfair.

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The good news: transitions are a skill, and skills can be taught.

Why a transition plan matters

Rather than aiming for the “perfect” number of minutes, most families do better focusing on three things:

Predictability: clear start and stop times
Connection: co viewing, checking in, and staying calm
Balance: making sure screens are not crowding out sleep, movement, play, and relationships

For older kids and tweens, it can help to talk openly about how certain apps and games are built to hold attention, and how media choices can affect mood, focus, friendships, and self image. Collaborative, non shaming conversations are usually more effective than power struggles.

How can I support my child forming a healthier relationship with technology?

Start with a simple routine you can repeat daily.

Step 1: Set expectations before the screen turns on Say what they are doing and when it ends. Example: “One episode, then off. Timer goes on now.”

Step 2: Use a timer and a warning Give a five minute warning, then a two minute warning. Let your child press the timer button when possible.

Step 3: Make the “after” plan irresistible Have the next activity ready before screen time ends. This reduces the cliff effect.

Step 4: Stay calm and consistent Your calm nervous system is part of the intervention. If your child escalates, keep your language short and steady: “Timer ended. Next is our choice activity.”

Transition activities that work well

Choose something short, engaging, and easy to start immediately.

Movement based